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OTG #19 | Trust The Feeling
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OTG #19 | Trust The Feeling

Your Body Knows Before Your Mind Does

Your Body Knows Before Your Mind


27% of American adults have cut off contact with a family member. 43% have experienced some kind of family estrangement in their lifetime. Blood doesn’t automatically mean you owe somebody anything — and they don’t automatically owe you anything either.

This episode gets into narcissistic family dynamics, the real research on chronic family stress and how it lands in your body — somatic, not just emotional — and why that tightness or unease you can’t quite name is worth trusting. It covers conditional familiarity, why the wrong person to talk to about a toxic family situation is often your best friend, the real risk of escalation when you set a boundary with a narcissist, and lived experience on what it actually takes to walk away and protect your peace.

Not to make you feel bad about your family. To make sure you’re paying attention before you’re standing in the middle of it with no plan.


988 — Crisis support, 24/7

1-866-903-3787 — National Grief Support Line

ForeverMissed.com — Build memory for those you’ve lost

Ananta Vilomah Facebook Group — facebook.com

🌐 anantavilomah.com

🌐 thewitnessechoes.com

echoesproject.substack.com

The rent is due every day. Until next time — Stay Off The Grid.

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